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Appreciating Small Things Is A Great Achievement

Sometimes,if not all times,things have to go left to go right.If you know you know.

What my charger taught me.It was frustrating at first,but now,after dislocating and returning it back,it's doing well.☺I know it may sound petty,but yes, I feel good.My own heroine☺.

Actually,I feel like it has made me a heroine.Small things can really make you happy and very proud of yourself.

The power of believing in yourself and letting things just work out.It's nice and great feeling too.If nobody ever makes you feel good about yourself, you can do that with small things in your daily life.

What has ever made you feel like a hero, yet it was so petty?

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